7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think Win-Win
Teens
can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere or
Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial
solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others
instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone can win.
It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your
doormat either. You care about other people and you want them to succeed as
well. Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to
go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s
an all-you-can-eat-buffet.
Win-win
always creates more perhaps surprising benefit of thinking Win-win is the good
feelings brings on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking Win-Win or
one of the alternatives is how you feel. Win-lose and Lose-win thinking you
will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings. Win-Win will fill
your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even
fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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